Malaika unfiltered

When you’re young, it’s easy to get influenced by peers. That’s why having a strong foundation of values is essential. Without it, you’re vulnerable to being led in any direction — even the wrong one. As a teenager or young adult, there’s often a strong desire to move out, explore, and gain independence. While that feeling is valid, what many people overlook is how important these years are for staying close to your family. These are the years where your values are either built or broken. Being at home gives your family a chance to remind you of your core beliefs — your faith, your morals, and your purpose. A lot of friends in our generation won’t check you when you’re doing something wrong. Instead, they’ll encourage it, laugh about it, or join in. They won’t always hold you accountable, especially when it comes to things that only bring short-term fun but long-term consequences. Some friends might seem like they have your best interests at heart, but their influence can still lead yo...

One of the most important rules in life is protecting your energy — and that starts with the people you allow into your circle. Real friends challenge you. They give you constructive criticism, not empty praise. They don’t feed your delusions or sugarcoat the truth to keep you comfortable. Real friends want to see you grow — and growth doesn’t happen in a comfort zone. The people who truly care about you will call you out when necessary, because they want to see you evolve, not stay stagnant. Your environment shapes your standards. The behaviors and mindsets you’re constantly exposed to will eventually feel normal to you. If you’re always around people who drink excessively, don’t set goals, or gossip constantly, you’re far more likely to adopt those same habits — consciously or not. You can’t surround yourself with low-value individuals and still expect to live a high-standard life. It doesn’t work that way. Choose your friends like you choose a partner. Look beyond how they treat you...